Friday, November 23, 2012

16 months

When you have a kiddo like Evan, there are milestones, and then there are special days.
Lately, I have been remembering where we were a year ago. Last Thanksgiving, we had just moved him from the NICU to the Transitional Care Unit, and his Grandma Storey got to see him for the second time.
One special day coming up is his 16 month mark on the 30th of this month. Most everyone that has kids use 18 months as a celebratory time- yay a year and a half! But 16 months is particularly special to me because it marks 8 months since we got discharged. He spent 8 months in the hospital. So this is the beginning of the time that he has spent more time at home with us than in the hospital. :-)

And it couldn't come at a better time. Thanksgiving was a great success. We have our Christmas tree up, and I am singing carols loudly and off-key.

Ever since I found out I was pregnant with Evan, I started planning the things we would do for Christmas. It is incredibly important for me to instill a sense of fun and wonder in the holidays for my child .... soon to be children. Because I grew up without Christmas, and I gotta say it wasn't fun during this time of year. It wasn't all about the lack of presents. I really loved the lights and the music, and the celebratory mood. Good food, seeing family, having a tree lit up and watching Christmas specials on TV...
I want my kids to see all those great things that so many people take for granted during the holidays.

So if you see me sometime this month in public skipping merrily along, singing the only words I know to "Jingle Bells" at the top of my lungs- please excuse my excessive Christmas spirit. :-) Its all for a good cause.







Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Oh yeah, I have a blog!!

It may seem as if I have forgotten about the blog. It's not that, it's just that I am only now recovering from one of the most miserable three month time frame I've ever experienced. Morning sickness sucks.

So finally, now that I can eat and drink again, I feel human enough to update on everything that's been going on since my last posting a month ago.

Ready?

Okay, so Evan is crawling. I mean, this kid nearly crawled out the front door! (with Daddy carefully supervising) He is crawling to the couch and pulling up and seriously considering cruising.
Which is so cool and makes me so happy, I have to use a word that isn't in the dictionary- It's splendiferous!
:-)

He is gaining weight (slowly), but I've increased his feeds do much in the past month, and he has been a real champ. He grew an inch, which is so great, and he has all of his 1st molars in or cutting at the moment. He's even beginning to get his bottom canines!

Eating orally has progressed somewhat, but it has always been the slowest progress. We just have to be patient and keep trying to get him to eat enough to replace a formula tube feeding. We're getting there though.

He's really a talker now! He's saying "b", "d", "y" and "g" sounds, and has said "dada" and "ma" in appropriate situations more than once. He also says "de-de-de" as we go down the stairs because I've been encouraging him to verbalize what we're doing, like going up or down, etc.
He also will babble and yell for extensive periods of time, changing his tone and facial expressions. It's hilarious to watch. :-)

I am so thrilled about the holidays coming up. This time last year, we were only halfway through an 8 month stay in the hospital, and we didn't get to celebrate Thanksgiving and Christmas quite the way I had imagined.

This year, we're having two Thanksgivings, one with my immediate family members this upcoming Sunday, and another on Thanksgiving day with Carl's mother. I am so looking forward to both, because it's been too long since we had a good holiday.

Oh and Christmas!! I am so excited! Carl and I are planning to take Evan to see all the pretty lights later on. We have a Christmas tree, my very first one since I lived my parents, and I am going to so enjoy putting it up and decorating. I don't care if we have to barricade it so Evan can't wreak havoc. I love the fact we even get to worry about it.

We're going to take Evan to see Santa. I'm so excited about that.
AND we are going to be able to get Evan a few gifts this year, which is phenomenal.

All in all, it's going to be a fantastic holiday season.

Finally, let's talk about our other little one. I'm 14 weeks now, and so far everything seems to be progressing well. I have a checkup next week, which I'm really anticipating, but other than the morning sickness nightmare, I have been doing very well.
I'm hoping to see our littlest one in an ultrasound soon, because I am nervous about the baby's well-being after what happened to Evan.
But I swear I'm feeling just occasionally, the tiniest bit of movement in there. It's not surprising, since I started feeling Evan move at 16 weeks, which apparently is really early for a first timer. I'm showing just a bit, which you can see in a picture below.

Other than that, we've been slowly adding to our weekly routine. I'm now trying to take Evan to the park weekly, for both our own good, since the weather has finally cooled down. He really enjoys the swings! :-)
We keep busy otherwise with errands and therapy appointments, and all the playtime at home, working on everything.

Really, I expect to continue to see phenomenal progress in his physical and mental abilities. By Christmas, who knows what he'll be doing?!?